Polyamory & open relationship

When And How Should I Tell My Date I’m Polyamorous?

Why is the onus on the polyamorous person? It’s not quite fair. In an ideal world, two people would tell each other whether they were poly, monogamous, flexible, or anywhere in between. In this world, there’s often a default assumption of monogamy. In some Bay Area subcultures, there’s no assumption that everyone is monogamous. The…

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How To Come Out As Polyamorous To Your Parents And Relatives

Congratulations! You’re getting ready to do something courageous. You’re daring to let your family know more about you. In the San Francisco Bay Area, you find a ton of poly community and support. You’ve found  friends and chosen family who totally affirm you. You don’t want to settle for being in the closet with your…

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